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You're invited to a

Date in 5 days

We handle the admin,
you go on the date

private betaNew York

rsvp

you found us early.

on paper, they're perfect.

AB 96%match

what the apps see

  • Both love travel
  • Both work out
  • Both ambitious
  • Both social
  • Both want something serious

Then you actually ask them what they want.

wants

  • A teammate
  • Shared routines
  • A home base
  • Someone who shows up

wants

  • Adventure
  • Independence
  • Spontaneity
  • Someone with their own life

Same checklist.
Different relationship.

Because matching interests isn’t the same as matching lives.

your next 5 days

One good date, not forty okay chats.

day1 day2 day3 day4 day5

7 min

the questions

Seven questions, about seven minutes. How you live, and what you want from someone.

on us

we plan the date

We read your answers, find the person, pick the place, and handle the timing. You just get the text.

your night

you show up

Then you tell us how it went.

experiment no. 01

good taste beats the algorithm.

A matchmaker who actually gets you should beat an app built to keep you swiping. We think we can prove it in 5 days.

who
20s, 30s, and 40s+

Busy, a little particular, and done with the apps.

where
New York first

More cities soon, in order of RSVPs. Somewhere else? RSVP anyway.

how long
14 days

Private beta, running now. 50 spots, and when they're gone, the experiment is full.

cost
$0

Free while we test it. You'll see a price before you ever pay one.

your part
you shape it

Your poll answers and your day-6 review are the data. The first 50 decide what this becomes.

kindly reply

seven questions.about seven minutes.

You found us early. New York is in private beta, and it's free while we test it.

your cities (up to 3) Where you live or keep ties. New York opens first.
what you're looking for drag to rank, most wanted first
  1. a date
  2. something serious
  3. new friends
  4. finding my people

questions

who picks my match?

We do, by hand, from your answers. No feed, no swiping.

what does it cost?

Nothing while we test it. If we keep going, you'll see the price before you ever pay.

do i have to get on a call?

Not always. We call when your answers make us curious, and it takes 15 minutes.

why do you need my instagram?

To make sure everyone you meet is a real person. We look at your profile to confirm, and that's all we do with it. No Instagram? A clear photo of your face works too, and only the two of us see it.

what does my match see?

Your first name and the plan. The rest is for the date.

what if you miss the 5 days?

Then it didn't work for you, and we'll say so. That's what the experiment is for.

why my number?

To tell you when your city opens, and to set up the date. Nothing else, and your match never sees it.

which cities?

New York first. We plan every date ourselves, so we open one city at a time, where we can be there.

what if my city isn't on the list?

RSVP anyway, and tell us where you are. Those RSVPs decide which city opens next, and whoever asked first goes first.

how do i bring this to my city?

RSVP, then send it to the people you'd want there too. Every RSVP from a city moves it up the list. If you know the good bars and the people who'd actually show up, help us run one there.

Didn't see your question, or something made you hesitate? Leave us a note.

who's setting you up

Two actual people. Zero algorithms. Tap a photo to say hi.

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